Jeesh, those four hot ladies from the City sure make being single look like a lot of fun. But for many singles, it can be a challenging time of feeling out of the loop, lonesome or even undesirable. But life in the solo lane doesn't have to be all about long faces and lonely nights. Instead, think of your dating downtime as time off for yourself, a period of personal revitalization and growth. And keep the faith — your love life will get hot and heavy again when the time is right. Meanwhile, be here now and make the very best of being single.

Singles, this time's for you. Take pleasure in being:

Unattached, but not unconnected. Even though you might be wishing for a scrumptious sweetie to go everywhere and do everything with, don't just sit home watching the cooking shows in the meantime. Spend time with friends, go out and have a blast, stay actively in touch with people you enjoy. Besides, the more you're out and about in the world, the more likely you are to cross paths with that future flame whose fate is to find you.

Solo, and sizzling. Even though there's nothing like a suggestive wink from a devoted paramour to make you feel extra sexy, true sexiness comes from within. Don't let your sensual side dress down and get dowdy during this temporary absence of well-deserved worship. Treat yourself like the Goddess of Love that you are. Wear your silks, paint your toenails red, peel yourself a grape. Radiate that glow of irresistible confidence, and it's guaranteed you won't stay single for long.

Continually evolving. While you're not out painting the town blue with your beau several nights a week, use your free time for yourself. With your attention focussed more inwardly right now, it's a great time to delve into something new and nourishing to the mind, body and spirit. Try yoga, a healthier diet, or take a night class in figure drawing. When at last you do meet your true love, he or she will be truly dazzled by your infectious joie-de-vivre.

A believer in love. Ever start to wonder if true love is just a myth? Or if it's just not in the cards for you in this lifetime? Nonsense. Love sweet love is alive and kicking, and everyone's invited to this party. In fact, the Internet has opened whole new worlds of possibility when it comes to finding yourself a really good match. Search for local singles and take a look at all the eligibles in your region. Get a friend to snap some great pictures of you looking fabulous, and post your own winning free profile. Get active in finding the love that is out there for you. And don't ever lose heart, because all good things take time.


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